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Joining The Fraternitas Lodge is simpler than you might think.


If you are curious about Freemasonry, live in or around Rainham, Medway or Kent, and are considering taking the first step, you are very welcome to get in touch.


There is no pressure and no obligation, just an opportunity to find out more.


WHAT HAPPENS NEXT

We understand that joining something new can feel like a big step, so we keep the process simple, friendly and informal.


1. Make Contact

Simply get in touch via our contact page, email or WhatsApp.


2. Have a Conversation

We will arrange a relaxed and informal chat to answer your questions and explain more about Freemasonry and The Fraternitas Lodge.


3. Meet the Lodge

If you wish, you may be invited to meet members or attend a social event.


4. Take Your Time

There is no pressure to join, you can decide at your own pace.


A Straightforward First Step

Many of our current members began in exactly the same way, simply curious and wanting to understand more.


You do not need to have any prior knowledge, and you are free to ask as much or as little as you wish.


WHO CAN JOIN

Freemasonry is open to men from all walks of life, typically aged 18 and over, who:


    • have a belief in a higher power
    • believe in the Monarchy 
    • are of good character
    • are interested in friendship, personal development, and supporting others


You do not need to know anyone already, many of our members started by simply making an enquiry.


WHY FRATERNITAS

At The Fraternitas Lodge, we pride ourselves on being friendly, welcoming, and inclusive.


Members often join to:


    • make new and lasting friendships
    • be part of a supportive and sociable community
    • contribute to charitable causes
    • develop confidence and new skills


Many who join us knew very little about Freemasonry beforehand. What they found was friendship, enjoyment and a genuine sense of belonging.


Does it cost anything to join?

Yes, there are some costs associated with joining Freemasonry, including becoming a member of The Fraternitas Lodge, although these are not intended to be prohibitive.


The overall cost can vary depending on when you join, as certain elements are pro rata, meaning they are adjusted based on the time of year you become a member.


There are typically:


    • a one-off Lodge joining fee
    • an annual subscription payable to The Fraternitas Lodge
    • and additional fees payable to the Province of East Kent and the United Grand Lodge of England (UGLE)


While these costs are not substantial, they may require a degree of planning.


Some members have chosen to spread payments over time, and this can often be discussed if helpful.


Importantly, cost alone should not be a barrier to making an enquiry.


If you are interested in joining Freemasonry, and The Fraternitas Lodge in particular, we would encourage you to get in touch. We will be pleased to explain everything clearly and answer any questions you may have.


A Simple, Friendly First Step

People join Freemasonry for many different reasons, but at its heart, it is about connection, personal growth, and being part of something meaningful.


For many members of The Fraternitas Lodge, it offers:


    • the opportunity to make new and lasting friendships
    • a sense of belonging within a supportive community
    • the chance to contribute to charitable causes
    • a way to develop confidence, communication and life skills


Freemasonry is not about background or status, it is about the individual. What matters most is a willingness to take part, to support others, and to enjoy the experience.


At The Fraternitas Lodge, we aim to provide a friendly and inclusive environment where members can feel comfortable from the outset. Whether you are new to the area, looking to meet new people, or simply curious about Freemasonry, you will be made welcome.


Many of our members began their journey with a simple enquiry, just like you may be considering now.


If you would like to find out more, we encourage you to simply get in touch, there is no pressure, just a conversation.


We welcome enquiries from across Rainham, Medway and Kent.


Just Ask About Joining

The easiest way to begin is simply to get in touch.


We will respond personally, answer your questions, and help you decide whether Freemasonry, and The Fraternitas Lodge, is right for you.


Frequently asked questions

WHAT WE ARE

We are a unique members’ organisation that has thrived for over 300 years. Having no political or religious affiliations, we comprise members of all ages, races, religions, cultures and backgrounds.

We meet in our individual Lodges throughout the country where we have ceremonial traditions which encourage us both to be more tolerant and respectful and actively to fulfil our civic and charitable responsibilities; we also make time to eat, drink and meet together, and form lifelong friendships.


WHAT WE AIM FOR

To attract those from all backgrounds and walks of life, enabling them to develop into more thoughtful and confident people. To inspire and challenge them to practise the core values we celebrate – Integrity, Friendship, Respect, Service – in their private and public lives. To cement our reputation as a force for good in our communities and society at large and as a thriving organisation that people aspire to join.


HOW WE WILL ACHIEVE THIS

Over the next 7 years, we will enhance our reputation as a thriving organisation that people aspire to join and broaden our membership across all age groups.


OUR VALUES

Our core values are the underlying principles behind who we are, what we stand for, and what we do. They are vital to understanding Freemasonry.


INTEGRITY

Honesty, trustworthiness, honour, reliability, and conscientiousness form the foundation of a virtuous character. They foster trust, maintain integrity, and demonstrate commitment, ultimately leading to a life of strong principles and dependable actions.


FRIENDSHIP

Freemasonry gives members many opportunities to make a wide circle of friends for life who share common interests and values. It provides a bond of friendship and a sense of belonging. This promotes a feeling of enjoyment and fulfilment.


RESPECT

From its earliest days, Freemasonry has respected the beliefs of its members. It promotes an environment where diversity is valued. It is a space where different beliefs and backgrounds converge, fostering an atmosphere of inclusivity, tolerance and harmony.


SERVICE

Whether participating in events, fundraising for a charitable cause or volunteering for public or community organisations, service is at the very heart of Freemasonry. Our members make valuable contributions by donating time, resources and skills.


People join Freemasonry for many different reasons, some join for the friendships they will make; friendships that last a lifetime and encompass the key milestones in life for better or worse. You will meet people who are different to you, those of different ages with radically different life experiences and interests, drawn together by common experience through Freemasonry.


Our members are, and have been for three centuries, drawn from all walks of life. From Captains of industry and chief executives to manual labourers and forklift truck drivers, so you will find people with a wealth of different outlooks from all races, religions, classes and backgrounds.


There are also those who enjoy the ceremonial aspects. Our meetings consist of centuries old lessons centered around you as an individual. How you live your life, the decisions that you make and how to become a better person are all found within our meetings. Freemasons are taught to look after those less fortunate than themselves, charity is our lifeblood and many members devote their time and energy to helping those less fortunate than themselves.


We also have a huge amount of fun along the way, we eat, drink and meet together and form lifelong friendships.

There are three ‘degree ceremonies’ performed during masonic meetings. They are essentially one act plays and teach members how to be better people and each play represents a different stage in life.


As an ‘initiate’ or Entered Apprentice, Freemasons are taught we are all born equal, we learn that in life some do better than others and it is up to those that do well to look after the less fortunate. From this stems our belief in the importance of Service.


The next stage is to become a ‘Fellow Craft’ where Freemasons are taught the importance of improving yourself as a person, and finally as a ‘Master Mason’, where we learn that we have but one life, and the importance of using it wisely. The details of the ceremonies can easily be accessed online but nothing beats experiencing it for yourself. After the meetings members dine together informally in order to enjoy good food, good wine, and good company. And most importantly, to have fun together.

The Ceremony of Exaltation sees members follow the clues from the Third Degree to complete their journey in Pure Antient Masonry, in a spectacular and unforgettable ceremony. Through ongoing participation, members will work together with old friends and new Companions to build on the principles of the Craft and unlock fresh perspectives on the meaning and value of Freemasonry.

The aprons stem from our historical and symbolic roots as stonemasons. Being leather, they were designed to protect them from sharp tools and rough stones. For today’s Freemasons, the apron is a mark of their membership. They are presented with a white leather apron and as they progress this becomes more elaborate.

Only men aged over 18 are allowed to join the United Grand Lodge of England in England and Wales.


The two leading women’s Grand Lodges, that we have the closest relationship with, are: Freemasonry for Women (HFAF) and the Order of Women Freemasons. These two groups only admit women because that is the choice of their memberships. Both of the women’s organisations, and ourselves, prefer to practice our Freemasonry in single sex environments. The United Grand Lodge of England regularly hires its facilities out for meetings of the two women’s Lodges due to our mutual respect and close relations.

It is the sheer scale. We are one of the biggest charitable givers in the country and gave £51.1m to charities in 2020 alone.


The Masonic Charitable Foundation, the Freemasons’ Charity – our national charitable grant giving arm, tackles some of the most significant challenges facing society, in particular, reducing loneliness in later life and ensuring a positive future for young children. We work in partnership with some of the biggest charities in the country to deliver our support.


Freemasonry also does a huge amount for medical research into treatments for cancer, diabetes, heart disease and a whole range of other conditions. In addition it makes donations to support those affected by overseas disasters as well as those at home, such as the Grenfell Tower disaster.


During the pandemic, Freemasons worked together to help their communities. The United Grand Lodge of England, and its members, did all they could to help in the fight against Covid-19. We have seen remarkable stories from across the country of how our members came together – from helping to raise vital funds for the NHS and delivering food to the community, through to purchasing ambulances and manufacturing vital personal protective equipment (PPE).


To support Freemasonry’s charitable response to the pandemic, UGLE and the Masonic Charitable Foundation, the Freemasons’ charity, established the Freemasons’ COVID-19 Community Fund.


This Fund has helped to support a range of local and national charities and projects that are helping people through the current coronavirus pandemic and in total has donated £3m during the pandemic.

Freemasonry exists throughout the world and the United Grand Lodge of England has Districts in many overseas countries. Our members are free to visit any of our Lodges abroad and will often find a warm welcome from fellow members who know the local country very well.


In addition to our Lodges, many other countries have sovereign Grand Lodges, which our members are free to visit and whose members visit us in England and Wales when travelling.

The United Grand Lodge of England has 180,000 members. The Grand Lodge of Scotland has approx. 27,000 members and The Grand Lodge of Ireland has approx. 20,000 members, whilst the two female Grand Lodges in England comprise of around 5,000 members. Worldwide there are estimated to be around six million members.

On average the annual dues and other fees amount to £200 a year, although there are local variations.

When becoming a Freemason, members are expected to be able to affirm a belief in a ‘Supreme Being’. This is deliberately phrased so as to be fully inclusive and we celebrate the diverse nature of the beliefs of our members. There is no requirement to be an active practitioner of any particular religion.

Common misconceptions arise from a combination of historical and cultural factors:


  • Historical Suspicion: Freemasonry has long been viewed with scepticism, particularly by authoritarian regimes and religious institutions. During the 18th and 19th centuries, conspiracy theories about Freemasons secretly wielding power or influencing political events became widespread, perpetuating suspicions.
  • Cultural Portrayals: Popular culture frequently depicts Freemasons as a shadowy organisation with hidden agendas. Books, films, comics, and television often exaggerate or invent their practices, further cementing this perception.

  • Misinterpretation of Privacy: Freemasonry places a strong emphasis on privacy rather than secrecy. Members argue that their traditions are private to preserve meaning within the organisation, not to deliberately exclude or conceal from the public.

  • Lack of Public Understanding: Despite efforts in recent years to promote transparency—such as opening lodges for public tours and highlighting their charitable work—Freemasonry remains poorly understood. Increased awareness and understanding of what Freemasonry actually is, is getting better, but will take time and patience and requires the dedication of members to speak in a clear and honest way about what their membership is and not perpetuation of cliché misconceptions. Masonic venues are often open for public tours, masons attending events and copies of the ceremony books available for purchase on well known online stores.


Together, the interplay of historical mistrust, cultural misrepresentation, and a lack of understanding perpetuates the enduring notion of Freemasonry as a secretive, male only, organisation–overtime these misunderstanding are being addressed.


Contact us now

Your enquiry will be treated in confidence and without obligation.


We look forward to hearing from you.

What Our MEMBERS SAY

“It’s more relaxed than I expected.”



Before joining, I thought it might be quite formal and rigid, but it’s not like that at all. There’s structure, of course, but the atmosphere is warm and easy-going. You can be yourself here.

“You quickly feel part of the group.”



I didn’t know what to expect at first, but within a few meetings I felt completely at ease. Everyone makes the effort to include you, and you soon feel like you belong.

“The friendships are what keep me coming back.”



Over time, you build proper friendships here, not just people you see occasionally. There’s a real sense of looking out for each other, which you don’t always find elsewhere.